How to Show Your Love to Your Spouse in a Better Way Than Having Sex

Love makes the whole world go round. We are all ruled by love more than anything else. Love makes songs and films to sell billions of dollars yearly. Love has various ways by which it is expressed to a object of our attention. Your love partner is about the most important person you want to show love to.It is generally believed that sex is the most important expression of love between couples. However, the act of sex takes time in order for it to be enjoyed by both parties. It is not an experience to be rushed if it is to be mutually satisfying. There are other expressions of love which take less time and can be done in an instant with satisfactory results.You can try them out and see.Hugging Your PartnerGive your partner a hug as many times a day as is possible. It is a very potent way of showing your love to him or her. There is no one who does not like to be hugged.

Maybe it’s the leftovers from our childhood days. Have you noticed that all kids love being hugged? Kids love being picked up and hugged tightly. Well, when we grow up and become adults, that part of us never grows up. It remains and we all love being hugged tightly. Give your partner a hug today. Even when you both have a disagreement, a quarrel or strife, a hug could help to resolve the issue. You do not need to say anything before you hug your lover. Don’t allow your relationship to deteriorate or crash on the platform of pride. You do not have to experience a divorce or a separation.

First Time Sex – A Beginner’s Guide for Men

When it comes to first time sex, whether it is the FIRST first time or the beginning of an intimate relationship with a new partner, there is almost as much anxiety as there is excitement. Both men and women may worry about whether their partner will find them attractive, whether they will be able to please them, and whether any of a thousand things might go wrong. In the vast majority of cases, things tend to work themselves out, but keeping the following tips in mind for how to proceed, as well as how to keep the penis healthy and ready for action, can take away some of the first-time jitters.

5 tips for first time sex:

Make sure she is ready, too. Generally, two people have a fairly good idea when they are mutually ready for sex, but if one partner is not as comfortable as the other, jumping in before both are on board can have serious consequences, both for the individuals and for the relationship. Although it may be more romantic to simply allow nature to take its course, communication is key. It’s best to talk things over thoroughly, in an open and understanding manner, to make sure that everyone is on the same page.

Maintain reasonable expectations. Although some men wish it were otherwise, sex with a live partner is not much like the wild action often portrayed in adult films. In the cinematic world, all of the action is choreographed, with the advantage of extra takes and do-overs any time things don’t go exactly as planned. Real people, however – especially those who have not yet established familiarity with one another’s bodies – can be more or less clumsy and awkward. It’s best to keep a sense of humor and laugh at any moments like this, rather than allowing them to become a point of tension in the proceedings.

Use protection. He might be clean. She might be clean. Both partners want to extend a show of trust. But any time there is intimate contact, there is a chance to spread a communicable disease, so protection is a MUST for everyone, unless they are in a committed, monogamous relationship (and are open to the idea of a pregnancy, since protection is also meant to address this issue as well).

Expect the unexpected. In the heat of the moment, various things can go wrong. She may not be lubed enough, or he may – despite the level of excitement – find that he cannot get hard enough to enter (at least not right away). Also, first-time encounters may be a little too exciting, and men may find themselves going over the edge before they have been inside long enough to really get the action going – or before they even get inside at all. This is, of course, embarrassing, but it is best to take it in stride and to maintain a sense of humor. After all, a couple can always try again (and again, and again), and making an issue out of a first-time fail is only going to create discomfort and tension.

Prep the penis.To make sure the penis is attractive, primed and ready for action as soon as it is called for, proper care is needed. A daily wash is the place to start, because no woman really wants to get up close and personal with a cheesy, smelly package. Use a mild soap and rinse with warm, not hot water, making sure to remove any smegma. While some women do enjoy a thick hedge of hair, a good rule of thumb is to keep the short hairs closely trimmed – this will present the penis in the best possible light, as well as reducing the risk of unpleasant smells. Finally, use a penis health cream (health professionals recommend Man 1 Man Oil) every day as a follow-up to a bath or shower. A cream that is enriched with vitamins, moisturizers and amino acids can help keep the tool looking smooth and attractive, reducing the appearance of dry skin, splotches, irritation and other unsightly blemishes that can put a damper on a romantic evening.

Sex With An Older Woman – What’s Love Got To Do With It? She Just Wants You

Sex with an older woman is great because there is very little chance that love has anything to do with it. Don’t get me wrong; love is a good thing and the world could always do with a little more love. However, when you’ve got the hots for a sexy and horny older woman, love will be the last thing on your mind.

Or hers, for that matter!

What’s Love Got to Do with It?

She’s not looking for love or a man about the house. She’s not seeking a life-partner or a husband or a man to keep her in house and home. She’s not seeking out a father for her children. She’s just after one thing… and you as a younger man have that one thing she wants! As an older and more experienced woman, she knows exactly what she wants and she knows how to get it. But love will not feature prominently in her checklist of manly qualities.

Of course, it’s inevitable that some feelings and emotions will play a part in any relationship and it may even be that you or her, or both of you, end up with a little love for each other. That’s a good thing and should be welcomed. In fact, it’s very difficult to sexually penetrate a woman, deposit your seed within her and *not* feel some kind of emotional connection to her.

But most likely it will be just be momentary, warm and temporary for you… and for her. She might love that fact that you just made her orgasm and love you as a person but she won’t be ‘in love’ with you. When you’ve left, she’d be fine without you.

Love Is a Fleeting Thing – Hot Sex Is the Answer!

If you’re an inexperienced younger guy who is lucky enough to be servicing an older woman with sex and carnal satisfaction, there’s a chance you might think you’re in love with your mistress. But don’t be deceived; it’s just a fleeting emotion and is quite natural. As time moves on you’ll soon discover that your once overwhelming thoughts of so called love for her diminish, first into feelings of deep caring, then into nonchalance and ending up with the realisation that you could quite happily live with or without her.

Again, that’s all quite natural.

One reason why sex with an older woman is fabulous, is that there is usually no long-term commitment from either the younger man or from the older woman. Both parties realise and understand that the relationship is purely about sex and getting physical, intimate satisfaction. You’ll very rarely find yourself planning a future together. Friendship and friendly affection are just a pleasant side effect.

There are compelling reasons why love plays a very minor role in a relationship between an older woman and a younger guy. Years ago, there was an element of taboo about such liaisons. Society seemed uncomfortable and reluctant to sanction sexual relations between mature females with younger studs. Now, things have evolved. The stigma has diminished sufficiently enough that most people don’t really care who is banging whom… or what ages they are. Rightly so. Sex between consenting adults is perfectly fine no matter what the age difference.

Who Are These Older Women Who Seduce Younger Guys?

From personal experience, mature women very rarely suddenly decide, one day, that they will now only have sex with younger men. It probably does happen; somewhere, some hot and horny 40-year old mom will wake up and look over at her bedraggled, bloated, snoring old husband next to her and fantasise about being sexually ravished by a strong young stud oozing with unlimited stamina.

However, the scenario outlined above undoubtedly contributes in its small way to gently persuade a horny woman towards taking on a lover. If she is sexually unfulfilled at home, she will seek satisfaction away from home. If she is frustrated and left without joy or intimate physical contact, she’ll be lured away by offers sexual heights from those men who are only too happy to oblige.

Hot Older Woman Looking for Sex Are All Around You

Older women who seduce younger men are not all frustrated housewives and stay-at-home moms. Many are established business women or mature leaders from social and civic roles or from the top of business and entertainment. A mature woman who takes on a younger lover could be from any walk of life and from every class of society.

From personal experience, they were women diners (aged 45 and 42) in a restaurant I worked at, the lady owner (aged 39) of a laundry where I had clothes cleaned, a fellow trainee (aged 47) at a life assurance training course, the grandmother (aged 53) of a half-hearted girlfriend; ironically, the grandmother was much more enthusiastic than the girlfriend!

The point is that any older woman could potentially be a mature lover and sex partner for you. Don’t dismiss or discount any woman, no matter how unlikely you may think. Never be prejudiced or judgemental and discard your preconceived, stereotypical ideas of women. Most women are *not* models or film stars. In fact, the *best* women are not models or film stars!

Again, from experience, the women that you think would never ever take on a younger lover… sometimes turn out to be the horniest, sexiest and most enthusiastic participants!
You just never know. Be open to the possibility at all times.

Get Ready for The Opportunity for Sex with A Mature Woman

So, if it’s not about love, what is it about? She’s not after a Prince Charming to steal her away from a life of meandering unimportance; she knows that it’s probably too late for that wishful outcome. But that doesn’t mean that she can’t have a good time with a virile young guy, who, for a few hours at least, will give her a thrilling ride.

She’s in it for the ride and not the happy ending. She’s been around long enough to know that there’s never truly a ‘happily ever after’. She just wants a great time. So, if you’re one of the lucky guys who have a mature woman lover that you’re servicing, make sure you do your best to give her a fabulous time and enjoy the ride.

Sex In Your Dreams – Understanding Erotic Lucid Dreaming

Many people like to explore their sexuality through their dreams. In today’s society, lucid erotic dreaming is included among the hottest trends. Apparently, there are a lot of different products, guides, books and meditation CDs available in the market that can teach you how to experience sex in your dreams.

In order to really master and perfect the art of erotic dreams you need to know more about this aspect of life.

The Possibility Of Having Intercourse With The Person You Fantasize

It is most possible to learn to lucid dream if your sole intention is to experience a deep form of intimacy with the person whom you ultimately fantasize about. Sex may happen in your dreams, but it will feel so real. Whatever you feel while dreaming are as real as the feelings you have experienced in the real world. This is because all sensations you have felt while living in the real world will serve as memories you will draw from when you lucid dream.

Real Dream Orgasms

Dreaming about sex can give you real orgasms too. In fact, it was even documented that dream orgasms are like real-like climaxes that happen with muscular responses, fast rate of heart beat and change in the vascular tissues. It is like wet dreams experienced by young boys who actually ejaculate in bed because of what they experienced in their reverie.

Erotically Charged Dreams

REM or Rapid Eye Movement sleep is very much biological in nature. Many things happen and occur while a person is in REM sleep; including sensual bodily changes and reactions. Men may have erections while women may have engorgement of their private areas. Such are all normal during sleep and dreams. In lucid dreaming, you are consciously aware of the arousal your body experienced physiologically. The same reactions can also be experienced when you lucid dream about flying.

What You Can Do To Have Sex Dreams

Fantasize. Before you go to sleep, you need to fantasize about the person you really like. You are most likely to have one or two fantasies that you are not able to realize or even share with other people. Such fantasies are ideal to be used when you want to dream of sex.

Watch An Adult Movie. Another way that can condition your mind for an erotically charged dream is by watching an adult film before you sleep. If fantasizing seems a bit difficult, then you can always play some titillating films on your DVD player. Make sure you can clearly hear the moaning sounds made in the movie as these will serve as subliminal messages for triggering your mind to dream about intercourse.

Meditate. When you meditate, you need to ease your mind from any worries and anxieties. The mind should be focused only on having intercourse. Only fantasies should fill up your thoughts; such as your past intimate experiences and also the best bed experience you had.

Pleasure Yourself Prior To Sleep. Right after you have watched an adult film, you feel probably in a hot mood to touch yourself. Do not hesitate to do so and feel free to experience solo pleasure. Not only will this release the heat building up inside your body; it will also condition your mind for an erotic dream.

Women Have to Learn About Their Sexual Arousal

Some women appear to be so sheltered from the world of adult eroticism that one wonders if they have ever experienced sexual urges of any kind. The fact is that even today some women never tune into eroticism and never gain an appreciation of their own sexual arousal because women’s sexual arousal and orgasm is not automatic.

Nancy, a recently widowed woman in her seventies became acquainted with John, a man of the same age, during a stay in hospital. On the grounds of friendship, they met once for lunch and then Nancy invited him to her house. On admitting John to her home, he took the sexual initiative by giving her a tongue-in-mouth French kiss.

Nancy contained her revulsion at the uninvited physical intimacy until John left but resolved that she would never see him again. Nancy told me that even her husband of fifty years had never kissed her ‘like that’. Men never seem to lose their enjoyment of physical intimacy with the opposite sex whereas women do not necessarily appreciate the physical side of sexual encounters at all.

“Sex is the price women pay for marriage. Marriage is the price men pay for sex.” (p92 Why Women can’t read Maps 1999)

Women should be encouraged to hope for sexual pleasure
On the other hand Nancy has already had her chance in life. As a teenager in the early 1940′s, she was sheltered by her family and society from any knowledge of sexual pleasure. Young women were simply not equipped to know how to respond to their lover in bed. This was a sad loss for Nancy as well as for her husband. Sex and love are often confused for women and, even today, many people believe that knowledge of sexual pleasure is ‘inappropriate’ for respectable women.

Marriage is not just about family; it also involves a man and a woman being companions and hopefully lovers for life. Today there is no reason for sheltering young women from eroticism. Teenage girls should be told how couples can enjoy sex for life. Knowledge does not force a person to make certain choices – it gives them a choice.

Men today have alternatives to marriage as much as women. Not every woman is attracted to eroticism but it is no longer sufficient for a woman to simply ‘put up with’ sex. She needs to know how to enjoy a sexual relationship beyond the early years if she is to keep a family together. Equally we need to change attitudes so that men appreciate the effort that women make in sex.

Sex has existed for eons and yet it is often asserted that women’s sexuality has changed over recent decades. Changing attitudes and providing information can only encourage women to make the most of their innate sexuality. Whatever the fashion, all women have essentially the same fundamental sexual responses and these are quite different to men’s.

The sexuality that some young women display today is no different to the past except society then was not so admiring of women who behaved in a sexually provocative manner. Since young women often don’t know how to have an orgasm it seems less likely that women who engage in casual sex are enjoying sexual pleasure.

In any event, it is worth questioning the value of a relationship for either side that starts by bartering sex for a meal or a couple of drinks. The film ‘Doc Hollywood’ makes the point well that young women should consider holding back a little and testing out whether a man is interested in them as a person or simply on getting into their knickers.

Using the Tips From an Adult Sex Guide Could Help Improve Your Love Life

Many books have been written for adults only. These books not only contain jokes, list out sex tips and discus different problems but also focus on games adults play. You can check out the details online and then download the right information which you can read at leisure. Several “Men’s only”sites are also available, where you can sign up as a member. Men openly discuss the most delicate topics and share views and opinions online. They send out regular newsletters, so that you receive an update on the latest in fashion, gadgets, products and more.

Some men are naturally good lovers. They are able to keep their women happy by doing what comes naturally. The important thing is that you should learn to relax. You should concentrate less on trying not to prematurely ejaculate and more on getting your lover in the right mood. A woman likes to take her time enjoying the sensations and foreplay that allows her to reach her peaks. Learn how to kiss and fondle her in such a way that she gets turned on. You can get detailed information from any adult sex guide online. Do not be hasty in choosing the first one that you see. Seeking information is one thing but putting it into practice will make the difference.

An adult sex guide will have more explicit information on the secret hot sex buttons you need to press, how much pressure you can apply and how to control yourself, from exploding prematurely. In the privacy of your bedroom, you can try out different variations and techniques. You can completely transform your den to make it look alluring, by lighting a few incensed candles, or you can both soak in that Jacuzzi swirling with beautiful red rose petals and lavender scented oils. The whole ambiance should be seductive with light music playing in the background. Do not overdo any of this because that could scare your lover away.

Make use of the hot sex tips that are contained in an Adult sex guide. Remember, kinky sex may interest your partner. Discuss your likes and dislikes and mutually try to benefit by deriving maximum pleasures from your efforts.

Read This Before Downloading Any Adult Sex Guide

The online world is actually inundated with adult sex guides. Just try searching for them on your favorite search engine and you are going to see such a lot of them waiting for you. They are all priced differently according to what they are supposed to contain and they contain different things as well. But, the point is, do you really need an adult sex guide?

The question you have to ask yourself is why you are looking for such a book to help you. Definitely the answer is that you are looking at improving your sexual performance. You are looking at giving your woman greater pleasure in bed. And you are hoping that the tantalizing sex guide you are looking forward to download will help you with it.

But, the fact is, no sex guide can help you if you don’t help yourself. These are some points you have to consider beforehand.

1. Good sex doesn’t come without a good equation with your partner. Yes, there are books that will train you in the pure art of carnal sex, but if you are in a long term committed relationship, then such a book won’t help you. Probably you will need a book that will tell you how to construct a better relationship with your partner than just some meaningless sex.

2. If you indulge in a great deal of foreplay, you can arouse your woman immensely. This is something that can really help you in what lies ahead. Maybe you won’t need the adult sex guide to spice up your act after that.

3. Another thing you have to consider is that you will need to actually implement the things that are mentioned in the guide if you want it to be effective for you. You cannot just read the book and then not implement it. Then it would be a futile exercise. In all probability the book is going to tell you about how you can have some more daring sexual experiences to make things more exciting-you have to be able to use that.

These are some of the things that you have to consider before downloading any adult sex guide. Will you be able to do it? That’s the question you have to answer.