Sex with an older woman is great because there is very little chance that love has anything to do with it. Don’t get me wrong; love is a good thing and the world could always do with a little more love. However, when you’ve got the hots for a sexy and horny older woman, love will be the last thing on your mind.
Or hers, for that matter!
What’s Love Got to Do with It?
She’s not looking for love or a man about the house. She’s not seeking a life-partner or a husband or a man to keep her in house and home. She’s not seeking out a father for her children. She’s just after one thing… and you as a younger man have that one thing she wants! As an older and more experienced woman, she knows exactly what she wants and she knows how to get it. But love will not feature prominently in her checklist of manly qualities.
Of course, it’s inevitable that some feelings and emotions will play a part in any relationship and it may even be that you or her, or both of you, end up with a little love for each other. That’s a good thing and should be welcomed. In fact, it’s very difficult to sexually penetrate a woman, deposit your seed within her and *not* feel some kind of emotional connection to her.
But most likely it will be just be momentary, warm and temporary for you… and for her. She might love that fact that you just made her orgasm and love you as a person but she won’t be ‘in love’ with you. When you’ve left, she’d be fine without you.
Love Is a Fleeting Thing – Hot Sex Is the Answer!
If you’re an inexperienced younger guy who is lucky enough to be servicing an older woman with sex and carnal satisfaction, there’s a chance you might think you’re in love with your mistress. But don’t be deceived; it’s just a fleeting emotion and is quite natural. As time moves on you’ll soon discover that your once overwhelming thoughts of so called love for her diminish, first into feelings of deep caring, then into nonchalance and ending up with the realisation that you could quite happily live with or without her.
Again, that’s all quite natural.
One reason why sex with an older woman is fabulous, is that there is usually no long-term commitment from either the younger man or from the older woman. Both parties realise and understand that the relationship is purely about sex and getting physical, intimate satisfaction. You’ll very rarely find yourself planning a future together. Friendship and friendly affection are just a pleasant side effect.
There are compelling reasons why love plays a very minor role in a relationship between an older woman and a younger guy. Years ago, there was an element of taboo about such liaisons. Society seemed uncomfortable and reluctant to sanction sexual relations between mature females with younger studs. Now, things have evolved. The stigma has diminished sufficiently enough that most people don’t really care who is banging whom… or what ages they are. Rightly so. Sex between consenting adults is perfectly fine no matter what the age difference.
Who Are These Older Women Who Seduce Younger Guys?
From personal experience, mature women very rarely suddenly decide, one day, that they will now only have sex with younger men. It probably does happen; somewhere, some hot and horny 40-year old mom will wake up and look over at her bedraggled, bloated, snoring old husband next to her and fantasise about being sexually ravished by a strong young stud oozing with unlimited stamina.
However, the scenario outlined above undoubtedly contributes in its small way to gently persuade a horny woman towards taking on a lover. If she is sexually unfulfilled at home, she will seek satisfaction away from home. If she is frustrated and left without joy or intimate physical contact, she’ll be lured away by offers sexual heights from those men who are only too happy to oblige.
Hot Older Woman Looking for Sex Are All Around You
Older women who seduce younger men are not all frustrated housewives and stay-at-home moms. Many are established business women or mature leaders from social and civic roles or from the top of business and entertainment. A mature woman who takes on a younger lover could be from any walk of life and from every class of society.
From personal experience, they were women diners (aged 45 and 42) in a restaurant I worked at, the lady owner (aged 39) of a laundry where I had clothes cleaned, a fellow trainee (aged 47) at a life assurance training course, the grandmother (aged 53) of a half-hearted girlfriend; ironically, the grandmother was much more enthusiastic than the girlfriend!
The point is that any older woman could potentially be a mature lover and sex partner for you. Don’t dismiss or discount any woman, no matter how unlikely you may think. Never be prejudiced or judgemental and discard your preconceived, stereotypical ideas of women. Most women are *not* models or film stars. In fact, the *best* women are not models or film stars!
Again, from experience, the women that you think would never ever take on a younger lover… sometimes turn out to be the horniest, sexiest and most enthusiastic participants!
You just never know. Be open to the possibility at all times.
Get Ready for The Opportunity for Sex with A Mature Woman
So, if it’s not about love, what is it about? She’s not after a Prince Charming to steal her away from a life of meandering unimportance; she knows that it’s probably too late for that wishful outcome. But that doesn’t mean that she can’t have a good time with a virile young guy, who, for a few hours at least, will give her a thrilling ride.
She’s in it for the ride and not the happy ending. She’s been around long enough to know that there’s never truly a ‘happily ever after’. She just wants a great time. So, if you’re one of the lucky guys who have a mature woman lover that you’re servicing, make sure you do your best to give her a fabulous time and enjoy the ride.